Searching for CLARITY?

Are You In a Complicated Relationship and
Unsure If You Should Stay or Go
?

If you're in a relationship and you:

  • Are having issues
  • Are struggling with trying to decide whether you should stay or go
  • Desire a long-term committed relationship where your needs and requirements are met
  • Want to be deeply true to yourself
  • Are terrified of settling for the wrong guy or ending up as the rebound woman
  • Don't want to waste your time with a guy who's never going to commit

You're not alone. A lot of smart, conscious women like you have been struggling with this very tough question...sometimes for months...or even years.

Because you've finally found someone you SO deeply connect with.

The chemistry is amazing!

You haven't felt this way in a long, long time.

But there are some issues...

Some of your needs aren't getting met.

He's not quite ready for a serious relationship (It's complicated)

But he's a great guy at heart.

You've invested a lot of time and energy into this relationship.

You're compatible on SO many levels.

So you tell yourself..."things will get better..."

"after his divorce is final..."

"after he heals from the fallout of his previous relationship..."

"after he figures out what he really wants..."

"he said he's trying..."

You're hopeful things will change.

That's why you've stayed.

But it's been a bumpy ride.

At times, even emotionally exhausting.

And you're wondering, should you stay the course or run?

How do you know if he's worth it or if you're wasting your time?

You're worried he's not ready for a serious relationship. Or you have some big differences that are making you wonder whether it's really going to work out.

Maybe he's stuck in the past, still tending his wounds from the pain of the recent breakup.

Or his ex is over-involved, there's drama, or he's still acting like he's married.

Or you don't feel like a priority, you feel more like his therapist--or a booty call.

Or he can't say no to his kids or his ex because he's struggling with the guilt from his divorce.

Or he's reluctant to commit, says he's not ready, or not sure what he wants.

Or you have some fundamental differences in your personalities and lifestyles -- maybe he's spender and you're a saver, or you love adventure and he could care less, or you're a neatfreak and he's not -- and it's starting to be an issue and making you wonder whether you're really going to be happy together long term.

Whatever is happening in your relationship, you're feeling like you're not getting your needs met, and it's REALLY wearing away at your patience.

But you're feeling REALLY conflicted.

If you stay, you're scared you might be settling and wasting your time if he doesn't change.

But if you leave, you're scared you might lose the man you love.

You're terrified you might never find that connection that you've waited years to find.

What if things improve in the future? What if he changes after you decide to leave? You're scared you might be dumping a great guy - maybe even the love of your life!

You're scared you might be giving up the dream of having the true love that you really, really want!

The real reason you've struggled with indecision is FEAR.

Fear is the biggest barrier to making a clear and confident relationship decision.

  • You're scared of ending the relationship and losing the man you love.
  • You fear the pain of heartbreak and loss because you've rearranged your life to be with him, you've already committed and invested so much.
  • You fear you won't find someone better, that you'll never find the connection you've waited years to find that you have with him.
  • You're scared you'll never find love again.
  • You fear you're letting go of "the one."
  • You're terrified of regret, of making a mistake, of missing him.
  • What if in the future things improve and you've dumped a great guy?
  • What if it will eventually work out and he's actually worth waiting for?
  • How do you know whether you're dodging a bullet or losing the love of your life?
  • What if you never find love again?

No wonder you feel so much confusion and anxiety about whether to stay or go!

It feels like you're stuck between unknown outcomes!

And the stakes are SO high!

Your heart is on the line!

How do you know which path to take?

The antidote to fear is CLARITY.

The problem is, you're unable to make a clear and confident decision because you're focusing on the things that keep you stuck and scared, rather than EMPOWERED and FREE to choose.

It's like being in a dark room.

You're trying to get to the other side of the room.

You can't see. You might trip and fall. You might run into something and get hurt.

And that's scary! You feel like you're operating blind!

When you let your fears guide your most important decisions - when you try to make decisions in the dark - it's never aligned to your long-term happiness; you'll always feel scared and stuck.

The solution is to RECLAIM YOUR POWER TO CHOOSE. You have to ask yourself these crucial questions:

  • How willing, able, and committed is he to meeting your needs and requirements?
  • And if there are areas of growth for him, what is it costing you to wait for him to develop/improve those areas (what is it costing you mentally, emotionally, physically, etc)?
  • And how long are you willing to pay that price?

But how do you go about finding the truth to these questions? What does it really take? It takes:

  • Being deeply aware of what you need to be true to yourself and knowing your rights in this relationship
  • Reconnecting with your deepest self so you can be guided by your vision, needs, and requirements
  • Stepping into your power to choose so that you can have the deeply fulfilling relationship that you really want

You CAN have the CLARITY and CONFIDENCE to make the right relationship choice. And I walk you through EXACTLY how to do that in my UPGRADED program:

The Relationship Clarity Course

A Step-By-Step Plan to Help You Clearly and Confidently Decide Whether to Stay, Go, or Wait

You don't have to suffer in limbo or continue feeling stuck!

In this powerful program you’ll be guided through proven principles to help you make life-changing relationship decisions as clearly and confidently as possible, including how to:

  • Determine if this relationship is the right long-term fit for you
  • Discover your unconscious needs and requirements so that you can get your needs met in your relationship
  • Embrace your vision for the life and relationship that you truly want and deserve, so that you can be true to who you are and what you want
  • Balance your heart and your head so you can make relationship decisions that truly feel right for you, and that help you spot red flags, avoid becoming the rebound woman and avoid falling for unavailable men
  • Stop feeling stuck and clearly and confidently make relationship decisions based on what feels true to who you are and what you really want
  • Have peace of mind about the future of your life and relationship

If you're in a relationship where you're:

  • Spending a lot of mental and emotional energy thinking about whether this relationship is right for you
  • Having issues but are deeply invested in the relationship, and it's too painful to breakup
  • Wondering whether you’re wasting your time
  • Scared of making the wrong decision, losing a relationship with someone you love, and living with regret
  • Really want the relationship to work out, but don't want to stay in a dead-end relationship either, so you don’t know which path to take

This course is for you. But ONLY if you are ready to:

  • Make a decision and reclaim your power to choose the life and relationship that you really want!
  • Increase the likelihood of relationship success and decrease the likelihood of failure
  • Be deeply true to yourself and allow yourself to be guided by your powerful inner resources
  • Learn the skills, tools, and concepts that support the long-term success of your love relationships
  • Identify and make relationship choices that support your needs and life goals

Here's exactly what we'll cover in the course:

To make a clear decision, it needs to be informed by real experience (which can often be clouded by our hopes and fears).

Get a Reality Check

  • Look at your relationship as clearly and objectively as possible so that you can make highly conscious relationship decisions
  • Assess his readiness for a serious relationship and your own readiness for a serious relationship
  • Uncover risk factors that may interfere with the long-term success of your relationship

The more you know and understand yourself, the easier it is to determine whether he is a good long-term match for you.

Know Who you Are and What You Want

  • Connect with your dream for the kind of life and relationship that you really want, and why it’s important to your long-term happiness
  • Make yourself a priority in your own life
  • Assess whether this relationship can support your vision and long-term happiness

Uncover your needs and requirements to help you make conscious choices and get your needs met.

Balance Your Heart and Your Head

  • Get deep clarity on what it is you need in order for a relationship to work for you
  • Identify what is absolutely essential for you to have a fulfilling relationship (your dealbreakers!)
  • Learn how to trust yourself in making difficult relationship decisions

Tune into your valuable inner resources and learn to trust and own your power to create the love life that you really want.

Step Into Your Power to Choose

  • Learn how to overcome your biggest fears around deciding whether to stay or go and how to be confident in your decision
  • Learn how to avoid settling for the wrong guy
  • Discover how to eliminate feelings of fear and rejection

Create a plan designed to help you be deeply true to yourself in a complicated relationship and confidently decide if you should stay or go.

Create Your Relationship Clarity Plan

  • Effectively weigh options of whether to stay, go, or wait
  • Determine how long to wait, how to be patient, and whether to keep “working on” the relationship
  • Determine whether the relationship issues are problems that are solveable or unsolveable

By the end of the course, you'll have a personalized relationship clarity plan that will tell you exactly if you should stay or go.

AND, you'll have clear next steps for the decision you choose make.

JOIN NOW AND YOU'LL GET:

  • A Powerful Strategy to Help You Decide If You Should Stay or Go

    A powerful guided strategy based on proven conscious dating principles to help you decide whether to stay or go.

  • Personalized Relationship Clarity Plan + Clear Next Steps

    A personalized relationship clarity plan that deeply honors your needs, requirements, and dream for the life and relationship that you really want and clear next steps for whichever decision you make.

  • Unlimited Program Support

    Get all your questions answered about the course content by simply reaching out to me via email or by joining one of the Q&A calls.

  • Privacy and Confidentiality

    Your trust is important to me. The class is contained in a private online password-protected student area. And what you share with me stays between us.

  • 5 Lessons in an Online Learning Portal

    Five lessons delivered in a private online student learning portal, through which you can complete the course as fast or as slowly as you’d like!

  • Downloadable Audios and Worksheets

    Access and download course lessons and materials at your convenience on your desktop or mobile device.

  • PLUS: Private One-on-One Support Coaching Calls

    I know how important it is to get support when making tough decisions. That’s why you also get two 60-minute private one-on-one coaching support calls with me for the duration of the course (in addition to unlimited coaching support via email). Have questions or concerns about uncovering your needs and requirements or how to apply your relationship clarity plan to your own life? Simply reach out to me and I will work with you one-on-one to help you think it through.

100%
RISK
FREE

Happiness Guarantee
I only want you to take the course if you feel that it's right for you. So if you do the exercises in the lessons, participate in the reflections, get one-on-one support and STILL don't feel like the course has started to help you get clarity, just let me know within 30 days of your purchase. I'll happily refund your money. (See FAQs for full text)

Pay-in-Full (Save $64!)

$497

Payment Plan: 3 monthly payments of $187 ($561 Total)

$187

If you're TIRED of living in limbo and you're READY to get clear once and for all -- and FINALLY move on with your life -- either with him (or without!)...

If you're FINALLY ready to stop feeling stuck and awaken to your power to choose, join me for this NEWLY UPGRADED class:

The Relationship Clarity Course

A Step-By-Step Plan to Help You Clearly and Confidently Decide If You Should Stay or Go

In this powerful program you’ll be guided through proven principles to help you make life-changing relationship decisions as clearly and confidently as possible, including how to:

  • Determine if this relationship is the right long-term fit for you
  • Discover your unconscious needs and requirements so that you can get your needs met in your relationship
  • Embrace your vision for the life and relationship that you truly want and deserve, so that you can be true to who you are and what you want
  • Balance your heart and your head so you can make relationship decisions that truly feel right for you, and that help you spot red flags, avoid becoming the rebound woman and avoid falling for unavailable men
  • Stop feeling stuck and clearly and confidently make relationship decisions based on what feels true to who you are and what you really want
  • Have peace of mind about the future of your life and relationship
  • Be empowered with the tools and concepts necessary for the long-term success of your love relationships
  • Identify and make long-term relationship choices that are in alignment with your needs and life goals
  • Increase the likelihood of long-term relationship success and decrease the likelihood of relationship failure
  • Prioritize long-term success over short-term discomfort so that you can have the life and relationship that you REALLY want
  • Be deeply true to yourself and allow yourself to be guided by your own powerful inner resources

In 5 Lessons:

  • Lesson 1: Get a Reality Check

    To make a clear decision, it needs to be informed by real experience (which can often be clouded by our hopes and fears).

  • Lesson 2: Know Who you Are and What You Want

    The more you know and understand yourself, the easier it is to determine whether he is a good long-term match for you.

  • Lesson 3: Balance Your Heart and Your Head

    Uncover your needs and requirements to help you make conscious choices and get your needs met.

  • Lesson 4: Step Into Your Power to Choose

    Tune into your valuable inner resources and learn to trust and own your power to create the love life that you really want.

  • Lesson 5: Create Your Relationship Clarity Plan

    Create a plan designed to help you be deeply true to yourself in a complicated relationship and confidently decide if you should stay or go.

Join now and you'll have access to:

  • A Powerful Strategy to Help You Decide If You Should Stay or Go

    A powerful guided strategy based on proven conscious dating principles to help you decide whether to stay or go.

  • Personalized Relationship Clarity Plan + Clear Next Steps

    A personalized relationship clarity plan that deeply honors your needs, requirements, and dream for the life and relationship that you really want and clear next steps for whichever decision you make.

  • Unlimited Program Support

    Get all your questions answered about the course content by simply reaching out to me via email anytime or by joining one of the Q&A calls.

  • Privacy and Confidentiality

    Your trust is important to me. The class is contained in a private online password-protected student area. And what you share with me stays between us.

  • 5 Lessons in an Online Learning Portal

    Five lessons delivered in a private online student learning portal, through which you can complete the course as fast or as slowly as you’d like!

  • Downloadable Audios and Worksheets

    Access and download course lessons and materials at your convenience on your desktop or mobile device.

  • PLUS: Private One-on-One Support Coaching Calls

    I know how important it is to get support when making tough decisions. That’s why you also get two 60-minute private one-on-one coaching support calls with me for the duration of the course (in addition to unlimited coaching support via email). Have questions or concerns about uncovering your needs and requirements or how to apply your relationship clarity plan to your own life? Simply reach out to me and I will work with you one-on-one to help you think it through.

You'll be supported every step of the way.

And you'll start gaining clarity immediately, even from Lesson 1!

By the end of the course, you'll have ALL the tools to reach a clear and confident decision.

Pay-in-Full (Save $64!)

$497

Payment Plan: 3 monthly payments of $187 ($561 Total)

$187

IMPORTANT NOTE: Enrollment in this program is limited to a maximum of only 10 students because I want to be able to provide much more support and individual attention. And spots in the program are first come first served. Join now and your initial one-on-one support call could be as soon as this week!

So that’s all I’ve got for you.

I’ve laid out what your choices are at this point. And I hope you make the decision that feels right for you.

You don't have to suffer through indecision. (Or suffer in a complicated relationship!).

But if you want the tools and strategies to make a clear, confident relationship choice that's deeply aligned with your long-term happiness, look no further. The solution is right in front of you.

No matter what you do, I wish you nothing but the best in your life and relationships.

To your success in love!

All the best,

P.S.  I'm doing a very limited run (I'm not sure when I'll be offering this class again) and I'm capping enrollment at only 10 students so that I can offer a lot of individual support. If you know you’ve been waiting for something like this, I encourage you to join now. But hurry! If the program starts to reach capacity, I'll need to close enrollment early. But if you still see the Join Now buttons, it means there's still a spot for you!

Frequently Asked Questions & Answers

  • Q.Who is this program for?

    A.If you have any confusion around these questions: Should I stay or go? Is this relationship worth it? Is this relationship going to last? THIS COURSE IS FOR YOU. This course is for you if you don’t want to settle for the wrong guy and you want a deeply fulfilling long-term committed relationship where your needs are met.

  • Q.When can I access the lessons? And how?

    A.As soon as you sign up for the course, you’ll have access to Lesson 1. And then after the Welcome Call on September 27, you’ll have access to ALL the lessons so you can complete each lesson at the pace that feels right for you. You can access each lesson at your convenience inside the private student portal. Though, I highly encourage you to do one lesson a week, especially so you can join the live reflection calls.

  • Q.When can I have the two private coaching calls with you?

    A.Your first one-on-one support call should be scheduled as soon after you sign up as you can so that I can help you zero in on the underlying issue and direct you the lessons and resources with the course that you should start with first.

    And then to ensure that you get the MOST value out of each private one-on-one coaching call together, the second one-on-one support call will be after you complete Lesson 3. Private one-on-one coaching calls can be scheduled up until November 17.

  • Q.When will I start seeing results? When will I start getting clarity? Do I have to wait until the end of course to get clarity?

    A.You can start getting clarity as soon as the first lesson! If you do the exercises and reach out for help from me, you can start getting clear about where you stand in your relationship right away.

  • Q.When will you be teaching this class again?

    A.I do have plans to teach this class again. But, to tell you the truth, I’m not sure when that will be. If you know this is for you, join now. I would be honored to help you on journey. I look forward to working with you!

  • Q.Do you offer a guarantee? What if I find that this class isn't for me? What is your refund policy?

    A.I only want you to take the course if you really feel that it’s right for you. And I want you to get the most value out of your investment. So I do offer a “Happiness Guarantee.” After completing at least the first three lessons, participating in the first three live reflection calls, and participating in at least one one-on-one support call, if you still don’t feel like the course has started to help you gain clarity in your life and relationship, just let me know within 30 days of your purchase and I’ll happily refund your money.

  • Q.I'm still on the fence about whether I should join the class and I have more questions.

    A.Contact me directly at melissa@happyhealthyrelationship.com and I’ll be happy to answer your questions and help you decide if this program is a good fit for your needs.

  • Q.When are the live reflection and Q & A calls?

    A.We’ll have a live welcome call on Wednesday, September 27, 5:30pm Pacific Time. And I’ll be leading live guided reflections on the previous week’s lesson.

    Live guided reflections and Q&A:
    On Lesson 1: Wednesday, October 4, 5:30pm Pacific time
    On Lesson 2: Wednesday, October 11, 5:30pm Pacific time
    On Lesson 3: Wednesday, October 18, 5:30pm Pacific time
    On Lesson 4: Wednesday, October 25, 5:30pm Pacific time
    On Lesson 5: Wednesday, November 1, 5:30pm Pacific time

Pay-in-Full (Save $64!)

$497

 

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Payment Plan: 3 monthly payments of $187 ($561 Total)

$187

P.P.S.  Last call. This enrollment page went out to over 120 people just on the waiting list for this program. But there are only 10 spots. I'll be closing enrollment once the class reaches capacity. If you know you want to do this, it would be my honor to work with you and support you! Click here to join now.